Well then I circle back to my advice being to discuss your past feelings as well as discuss rules for how to amicably put an end to the activities. And acknowledge the risk that something like this can absolutely end your relationship despite the best intentions and the best efforts at communicating.
Sometimes people think they know how they’ll feel and are surprised to learn they feel differently.
I feel like I didn’t hear what YOU actually want. Does the idea sound enticing or does it fill you with dread?
And I definitely agree with others that you need to be 100% open and honest with your love about how you’ve felt about your friend in the past, because that can definitely be important to her. Basically, if you are thinking of excuses to rationalize not telling your partner something, there’s a good chance it’s the wrong thing to do.
Damn, beat me to it!
Everything is wrong unless it’s not, duh. Context is everything!