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    • AFAB = assigned female at birth; basically because they happened to have a vagina at birth, so they were supposed to like pink and dolls and a lower paycheck and whatever else society has decided the female experience should be like.
    • AMAB = assigned male at birth
    • NB = non-binary; a person that identifies neither as male nor as female. They might be something in the middle, or they might be something completely different.
    • femme = basically the way women have traditionally looked or behaved (long hair, pink etc.)
    • fundie = fundamentalist Christian; basically very conservative, very eccentric people with world views they claim to be traditionally Christian
    • bussy = boy pussy; the anus of a man, or it may also be used to describe the vagina of a transmasc person
    • transmasc = transmasculine; a person who was assigned female at birth, but who rather identifies with masculinity and may have taken measures to be perceived as such (clothing, hormones, surgery etc.)





  • I do think, it’s good that we’re able to self-host these models. Better than not being able to.

    But the biggest draw of open-source to me is that I and others in the community can fix things.
    It’s possible that I just don’t understand enough about how these models are created, but right now, it doesn’t feel like we’re able to fix things.

    If the next LLaMa model loses all knowledge of the Uyghur genocide, because Facebook wants to distribute it in China, then I don’t know how we’d patch that back in. Even collecting the training data is tricky.

    It feels a lot more like Creative Commons than open-source, i.e. you can use what they’ve created, and you can remix it, but adding to it is not easily possible.




  • It’s a win-win, if they view the relationship as just individuals with benefits.

    The opposite end of the relationship spectrum is where you work together to advance both of your goals, happiness etc., like an amorphous blob.
    In that case, the proposal of the girlfriend makes sense, because she presumably needs the once-a-week cleaning for her happiness and so they would work together on that, just as much as they would work together on something that primarily advances the guy’s happiness.

    People will often call the former a “transactional” relationship, and the latter “true love” or whatever, but ultimately, each relationship has to figure out what works best for them and where along the spectrum they want to be.
    Biggest problem with this particular relationship is that the girlfriend seems to have a very different expectation than the guy.


  • Two months ago or so, I started wiping my floors about twice a week with a damp cloth, because I’ve got dust mite allergy, and yeah, the clean surfaces are crazy. When I’m not wearing socks, I can easily tell, if I haven’t wiped for a few days.

    But also, everything else in my room collects dust much less quickly, I guess because I scoop it off the floor before it can settle everywhere else.
    And my floor now also has this shine to it, which always makes it look like I’m trying to sell the place.




  • That is exactly why I’m downvoting many of the comments here. Not personal stories, but all the “men have it so much worse” comments, which are ultimately just toxic against women.

    Because holy fuck, that was exactly Reddit, and I do not want this place to end up the same. We already have a massive imbalance between the genders and if we men start discrediting women, they’re most fucking definitely not going to show up here.

    I do want men to be able to speak about abuse stories. That is where our patriarchical society kills men, in that it does not allow us to show weakness. But it cannot fucking devolve into a us vs. them discussion, which this whole question is locked and loaded towards. That is not helpful to anyone.


  • I once heard a lady respond to a claim that she should be doing voice acting. Basically she’s a show host and presenter, so she should know fairly much about the field and is already pretty trained for voice stuff.

    And basically, she said that she couldn’t do that (I assume professionally), because you essentially need voice training which takes 1-2 years. Presumably that’s not a full-time training, and rather just regular feedback from a trainer + you training in your own time, but yeah, still sounds rather involved.

    I’m guessing, though, there’s also a big difference between voice acting for a series, where you need to speak longer sentences correctly in the right tempo with appropriate emotion,
    and just one-off gigs like a radio ad for a local company.


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    26 days ago

    I’ve heard different reasonings.

    One is that the baddies don’t call themselves the baddies. Apparently, there’s some right-wingers who refer to themselves as “centrists”, because they pretend that their position is entirely normal.

    The other reasoning is that the leftists perceive right-wing rhethoric as so objectively bad that someone saying they have a political opinion and that opinion is in the middle, because both sides are valid, to them just means that person is being ridiculous.

    Mind that the meanings of “left” and “right” and even “center” varies a lot between countries, so it depends a lot on the context.





  • No, but it can take more than the website demands.
    For example, browsers these days pre-load links before you click on them. If I remember correctly (and if it’s still implemented like this), Firefox by default would only do a DNS lookup and TLS handshake, to keep memory+power usage and security concerns low, whereas Chrome optimized more for being as fast as possible, and already downloaded the first webpage files.