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https://fedi.video/ has organised a bunch of channels into playlists that has some crossover with your topic list.
I looked at it, and they don’t allow making an account for some reason.
It seems more complex than being on YouTube.
I think it’s more just for discovery. They provide a guide here which recommends https://tilvids.com/ as a PeerTube instance you can sign up with.